Honor each other…

With patience and compassion let the man support the frailty of the woman, and the woman support the frailties of the man. Do not disdain each other; instead, vie in showing the greater honor to each other. Bitter and contentious words should never arise between you; rather, reprove each other in the spirit of gentleness.
–Elizabeth of Schönau (1129-1165)

The Cross is…

Therefore, the Cross is something wonderfully great and honorable. It is great because through the Cross the many noble acts of Christ found their consummation – very many indeed, for both his miracles and his sufferings were fully rewarded with victory. The Cross is honorable because it is both the sign of God’s suffering and the trophy of his victory. It stands for his suffering because on it he freely suffered unto death. But it is also his trophy because it was the means by which the devil was wounded and death conquered.
–Saint Andrew of Crete (Seventh and Eighth Century)